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Moving out and Moving on

    It has been now 2 years since I have wrote in this blog but let me tell you a lot has happened since then and soon after reading this you will see why I have been so absent on here. I am in no shape or form a professional but I do hope that this post will help someone if you are going through losing a family member or even a friend, scared about moving on or if you are wanting a fresh start but scared about taking those first steps then this is a blog post you need to read. I have always wanted to help others and writing is one of the ways I feel like I can fully express myself.     Well first off let me start with in November of 2020 my dad passed away. I realize that I made this blog after he passed but I wanted to spend some time writing about this because I feel like a lot of people have lost someone they love and sometimes it is helpful to know you are not alone in working through your grief. Honestly grief is a rough thing. I still am going through all the ...

Covid Diagnosis 😢

I thought in this blog that I would start making blogs relating more to mom life then to tell stories from my past. My hopes are that I can still help people with my stories of mom life which are typical things us moms go through daily. This is one of the roughest things I have gone through my whole almost 11 years being a mom. On April 22nd I was diagnosed with Covid-19. This virus let me tell you is no joke. As soon as I knew I was infected my mother in law took my youngest so that I could not risk exposure to him. He doesn't have Covid-19 and I am trying to do everything in my power to keep it that way. While celebrating my dad's birthday, My sister, my fiancé and myself were exposed at one point to someone who had this virus. Only my fiancé and I besides the person who infected us got the virus. My sister thank god was negative for the virus. In this blog I chose to write about each day and my symptoms maybe this can open everyone's eyes to how serious this virus is so ...

Living With Past Abuse

  Most people look at me and think "She looks so happy with her life, there must be nothing wrong with her." Looks can be very deceiving! I tend to not think like that with other people I feel like no matter who you are, you have probably gone through something in your life that has caused you some kind of pain. Don't get me wrong it is different for each person and I am in no way saying that everyone's experience is similar to mine. My thought about making this post is to hopefully to help someone who is reading this to know they are not alone! When I was about 6 & 7 years old I was physically and sexually abused by my stepfather. Before him and my mom got married he was a completely different person I completely trusted him and thought he was the right person for my mom, so when she asked me what I thought about him I told her I liked him and she felt the same. So when he asked her to marry him as you could imagine I was over the moon and happy that I was finall...

Welcome to My Blog

  Throughout my life I have always been able to express myself better through writing and I'm so happy that I am finally taking the leap to start my own Blog. I chose the name Mom Life because it's so appropriate. Most of my post's will be about being a mom, but there will also be post's about my struggles as well. I have 2 boys, Aiden who is 11 years old and Giovanni who is 3 years old. They both have very different personalities, Aiden is careful and is much like me while Giovanni is very stubborn and wild! I love how both of my boys have different personalities because in a way that is what makes them unique. I am married to a wonderful man Andrew who I love with all my heart. Not saying that he never get's on my nerves because that would be a lie but I wouldn't want anyone else by my side during this thing called life. He has helped me find my inner strength that I had lost when I was younger. Before I met him I was shy and never stood up for myself and when...